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At some point in our lives, we all must deal with the loss of someone we love. The loss may come after a lengthy illness, or it may come suddenly…However it happens, we must cope with the person’s absence and deal with our grief.

Denial

Often, when we don’t want to face something, we deny that it is happening. Denial is a defense mechanism that’s used to help numb the initial shock of a loss. We tell ourselves that what is happening isn’t happening: We block out the news we are hearing and the reality that is upon us. When life changes in an instant, we tend to want to believe that it isn’t really happening. This is way to deal with the overwhelming emotions a loss brings about. By denying the loss, some of the impact of the initial shock is spread out so that we don’t have to absorb it all at once.

Anger

Denial can only last for a while: The pain of reality must eventually emerge. That pain is often manifested as anger. We may direct that anger at the person we have lost or at others around us. We may ask questions such as, “why me?” We don’t understand why something so painful has happened. Those of strong faith may be angry at whatever higher power they believe in. Anger is a natural and necessary part of the process. It is what reconnects us with reality, as painful as it is.

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Surviving the Holidays A special seminar to help you cope with the holiday season.

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Finding Holiday Joy Amid the Grief

If you’ve lost a loved one or suffered a setback, the holidays can feel hollow. Learn how to experience joy despite it all. By Jeanie Lerche Davis

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Handling the Holidays, Surviving Special Occasions

Holidays, birthdays and anniversaries are often joyous. But special family occasions can feel bittersweet, lonely or sad when someone you love has died. If you’ve lost someone close to you, Legacy has experts and other resources to help you cope during holiday seasons and throughout the year.

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